Couples Therapy

There's a ghost in your marriage, and it arrived long before your wedding day. It shows up when your partner pulls away and you feel that familiar panic rising in your chest. It appears when you need space to breathe and your spouse interprets it as rejection. It's there in the fights that follow the same script, the words that land wrong, the silences that stretch too long.  This ghost isn't some supernatural presence. It's your attachment style, shaped by hands that held yo

The fight about whether to book the vacation is actually about security versus adventure. The disagreement over Sunday plans is really about rest versus connection. You keep circling the same conflicts because you're arguing about logistics while something deeper is driving the tension. What looks like stubbornness or incompatibility is often a collision between the core values that shape how each of you moves through the world. Understanding the Invisible Architecture of Con